Soaking Up Summer in Fall

Look at the size of that sycamore leaf!!  A springlike fall day is such a tease, because I want to be out there doing stuff, but all I can do (for the sake of leaving nature to do her stuff) is admire and be amazed (and water).  The diversity of fallen leaves reminds me how privileged we are to have so many tall native trees surrounding us, providing food and shelter for large raptors and other native wildlife.  My evil plan now includes letting as many trees grow undisturbed as possible.

The big oak tree was showering little black acorns all over, its first serious acorn production since I’ve been here, and all the little critters were dashing around harvesting them.  Meanwhile, I myself was harvesting lots of assorted greens and lettuces from the veg garden, as if it was the peak of spring.  Successive fall planting was an inspired plan, given the mild weather.

Erev was quiet, as E was off performing the second night of Romeo, which he said went even better than the first.  (The flowers are the bouquet Avdi presented to E at the first performance.)  I made a pasta with my homemade sauce, replete with fresh herbs from the garden, and the greens on the side.  The challot were back to the normal recipe, nice and fluffy.  It was just A, K, and I (Y was holed up in his room).

Notice how full of gorgeous blooms the christmas cactus is this year!  (I see why the botanical name is less commonly used–Schlumbergera!  How awful–it sounds like a schnockered hamburger.)  I had the plant outside all summer in part sun, keeping it watered and drained regularly.  People were like “What?!”  It turns out I imitated its preferred conditions (not desertlike) enough to make it happily bloom once I brought it in and gave it moderate light and water.

Not to be left out, my apt jungle is doing well, constantly unfurling new baby leaves.  (That tall spear is an unfurled leaf.)  I think talking to them helps!

Update: It’s about 80º as I write.

 

 

Romeo

Last night A, K, Y, and I were privileged to watch E nail the role of Romeo in his HS drama production of Romeo and Juliet, directed by Schaeffer, based on the Baz Luhrmann version.  He was excellent, as were his co-actors.  But he was most excellent!  I was proud.  He really has a calling.

Fall is back to more of a semblance of fall instead of winter (whatever normal is here), mild and pleasant.  Today is supposed to get to 78º!?  The leaves are finally turning colors for real.  There’s nothing really to do outside, just enjoy nature taking back over, and all the little critters in a feeding/storing frenzy.

 

Bitters

It’s especially tough for Avdi right now, what with all the schlepping of kids, and dealing with kid breakdowns, and finding/affording additional psychiatric and mental healthcare, and errands, and trying to find time to work to pay for it all.  It’s pretty desperate.  I do what I can, but it’s not enough.

A bright note, at least for me, was he and I got to go out belatedly for our monthly “date”.  We just went nearby to “Off Elm” WG, an upscale, friendly craft cocktail and whiskey bar, now with “snacks” which were more like superb meals.  The drinks were excellent and creative, and the bartender J was interesting to talk to.  I think she gave us the unofficial “bartender’s handshake” with all of us doing shots of Malört, a Swedish bitter that’s stronger than fernet, and we surprisingly liked it!  Avdi and I got to talk more than we ever do, about “matters of consequence”.  So that was a worthwhile reprieve.

 

Half Frozen

It finally happened.  It got down below freezing for a couple of days, and the peppers and eggplants needed to come in and be frozen the rest of the way.  I’m talking lots and lots of peppers of all kinds.  It turns out I can grow peppers if I just ignore them.  Like whole cayenne trees.  The kitchen and my eyes and lungs were pepper-sprayed!  I hope someone likes it hot!

Just to walk over there without freezing I had to layer up for the first time this season.  But supposedly this is just one of those passing flukes and will get back to reasonable temps today.

For dinner I made a really good creamy Tuscan chicken cannellini soup with lots of fresh greens from the garden, but not hot peppers.

Here are lots and lots of pepper photos, the most I got outside for yesterday.

 

Inevitable

It hardly matters anymore if establishment dems stand their ground, or cave to save their so-called reputations, because either way, repugs get their way and blame dems, and one way or another Americans of any party suffer.  IMHO.  It’s all part of the evil plan to hold us hostage.  And not just us, but our kids and gkids.  It’s going to take something a lot more aggressive and prescient than voting and compromising.  Maybe even some heads rolling.  Anyway, I have spoken!  What do I know?

It’s freezing out and I’m layered up, putting off the inevitable, but I’ll get there.

Cirque

Erev happened amidst much to-ing and fro-ing like rats on speed.  (The actual rats just sleep in piles for much of the day.)

All the scheduling, coordinating, and frequent shuttling required of Avdi daily is mind-boggling.  Not to mention the constant worry over one of the kids having a mental breakdown in their own private cirque de solipsism.  Reminds me of a line from The Police, “Darkness”: “Life was easy when it was boring.”  Life is never boring.

Outside it’s gorgeous and colorful.  I’ve included the squirrels photo, even though my phone has a worse case of cataracts than me apparently, because it would have been a great shot.  As with my chippy friends, they were not moving at all, nor was the camera.  I wish my phone would do the same to my few selfies, but NO, those unfortunately are in focus.  So random.

Speaking of phone, I was temporarily without it overnight, because it slipped out of my pocket while I was absorbed watching a musical performance at the HS Courtyard, featuring E’s a cappella group.  There was some real talent among the high school singers.  Avdi, Allie, Jess, and I sat outside around a little fire that wasn’t even necessary, it was so beautiful out.  (They retrieved my phone later.)

 

Devious

The days have been mild and springlike so far in Nov., perfect for walking, working, and enjoying nature do its work without my help.

The house was unusually empty all day, just right for my devious cleanup projects!  I doubt they even noticed when they came home.  The office is somewhat restored to order, as is Y’s rat cave.  Now if only Avdi can find affordable, accessible solutions for the kids’ mental/physical health, and thus be able to work in peace to afford it all, that will be the ultimate order.

A’s partner Allie has been in town from TN, so that helps with his own mental health for the moment.  She has been assisting remotely with his/kids’ medical/healthcare business and scheduling, taking a lot of the load off him.  I stuck around in the evening so they could go out to dinner.  Later Jess brought us frozen custard (a food group in STL), and took me home.

 

Crack

This friendly little chippy was happily sitting right in front of me for multiple photos, but my poor refurb hasn’t quite gotten the idea yet, so forgive the blurriness.  It’s starting to get flowers, at least.  It will be assimilated.

Things on the home front have been further complicated by trumpian attacks on national healthcare, so even more stressful, but if recent elections are any indication, a crack in the regime is widening.  There may be some hope for this stupid country yet.

 

 

A Hopeful Start

All I have time to say this morning is a qualified “there’s still hope for our country”!  (I know, don’t get hopes up too high, but this is a good omen.)

Dashed But Not Defeated

Yesterday I shoveled out the Eldritch Narnia that was Y’s closet, almost the same volume of artifacts as in the room itself.  I finally sorted it all and returned the room to a semblance of order (for the moment).  I also exercised the rats in their playpen, which S enjoyed.  Later he got to help me return them to their cage, which he loved.

That was his final night here.  Today Avdi is taking him to do the halfway exchange and bringing K and Y back.  Sadly, the deranged dictator got to Michigan first and frustrated their plans and hopes, so we have to find a plan B.  If it makes us angry, imagine how the kids feel.  I can’t wait until these criminals are utterly destroyed.